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You care about this relationship. So why does it still feel lonely?

Online relationship therapy for individuals and couples who want less fighting, more repair, and a connection that holds.

Choose the Free consultation tab to grab a 15-minute time.

Not ready for a consult yet? Get the free Same Fight Reset

Licensed in VA, WI (LPC) and MN (LPCC); telehealth privileges in SC and FL

Preview of the free Stoplight Method card

A free reset for the fight you keep having

Your free Same Fight Reset: a short video, a workbook, and a week of emails. You’ll use the Stoplight method to notice yellow early, pause with a time to come back, and repair with words you can say.

Is this you?

  • You're in the same fight and want a way back.

  • You care about the relationship and want to change your part of the pattern.

  • You chase or shut down, get flooded, or feel lonely with your partner in the room.

  • Your repairs never quite stick.

You don't need to be in crisis to start. Getting ahead of the pattern counts.

How I help

Couples therapy

For partners who want to stop the same fight and rebuild trust. We work on attachment patterns, mid-fight flooding, and repair. Learn more about couples therapy

Individual relationship therapy

Change the dance even if your partner isn't in the room yet. We focus on your side of the loop and how to ask clearly for what you need. Learn more about individual therapy

Meet Jordan

Jordan Johnson, online relationship therapist

I'm Jordan Johnson, a licensed professional counselor. I've been a licensed counselor for 14 years and have worked with hundreds of individuals and couples. My work is attachment-based. We look at why you chase or shut down and why skills disappear mid-fight. If faith matters to you, we can include it. It's welcome, not required.

More about Jordan

How to start

  1. Book a free 15-minute consult to see if we're a good fit.

  2. Schedule your first session online.

  3. Practice between sessions with simple tools.

$165 per 60-minute session, self-pay. Have out-of-network benefits? Checking them through Thrizer is optional. Details on the therapy page

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Get the free Same Fight Reset, then short emails that build on it.